SHARING THEIR STORY - Roger and Bonita Bott shared their story during the 2016 Sylvan Lake Mayor’s Prayer Breakfast.

Central Alberta farm family reflects on personal tragedy

Roger and Bonita Bott have relied on faith, family and community

  • Oct. 6, 2016 6:00 p.m.

BY JENNA SWAN

Courtesy of the Sylvan Lake News

The Sylvan Lake community gathered last week to pray for and support those in leadership as part of the 2016 Sylvan Lake Mayor’s Prayer Breakfast.

Those in attendance prayed for members of government, judicial and peace officers, emergency medical personnel, fire fighters, education systems, local businesses, marriages, families, churches, their leaders and local youth.

In addition to the community gathering to celebrate the accomplishments of 2016, those in attendance were blessed with the opportunity to listen to special guest speakers Roger and Bonita Bott who lost their three daughters Catie, Dara and Jana in a farming accident last October near Withrow.

Roger and Bonita spoke on the role their faith, family and community played in the past year following the accident.

“Everyone has their own story they are going through and this is ours,” said Roger. “We hope we can give you a few things this morning that can encourage you and help you live your story out loud.”

The Mayor’s Prayer Breakfast fell 13 days before the one year anniversary of the day their lives changed forever.

“We think about that often the day our lives changed forever,” said Roger. “I can’t believe it’s been a year. Where does a year go so quickly? We think about Catie, Jana and Dara many times everyday.”

He added that as they work to bring in this year’s harvest, they are continuously reminded of their girls as they truly did everything together as a family.

Roger explained the family’s faith has been instrumental in helping them to get through this tragedy. He added he believes it is their faith that helps them to walk through life following the accident.

“God is one of the things that has helped us get through this,” he explained. “I truly believe that God built us and created us to be in relationship with one another and with him. I believe we have to have that living relationship with God. I believe that has been key in helping us get through this.

“Probably the biggest comfort I have had is that as a Christian and with our girls being Christian that I will get to see them again one day. That is the biggest thing that carries me is that I will get to walk up to them and see them again one day that’s what we believe.”

He explained that without that belief he is unsure how anyone would be able to walk through the darkness of such a loss.

Bonita went on to speak on the importance of family. She detailed how she and Roger spent nine years trying to have children.

“That’s a whole other story in itself,” said Bonita. “After trying and trying, going to doctors all of a sudden, boom we’ve got four kids in three years so things got pretty intense. Even at that time there was so much community and family that gathered around us.”

Bonita acknowledged both her and Roger’s immediate family who she said helped immensely last fall, explaining the practical help they received such as house work, yard work and farm work was truly a blessing.

Another blessing mentioned by Bonita was the decision to homeschool their children.

She added she knew if they didn’t at least try homeschooling, she would regret it.

“I’m so thankful for that, because if I didn’t homeschool them and I didn’t gather my kids around me how much would I have regretted that now,” said Bonita. “So I am very, very thankful for that time and those memories. We are very thankful for our family, church family, extended family and everyone who has come around us to support us.”

Roger then touched on what community means to them.

“When our accident happened, our community came in around us,” said Roger. “It was overwhelming and unexpected to see the enormity of everything that happened and the help we received from the community. It’s been important for us to be involved in our community, our church, other communities, other churches and some of the first people to reach out to us after our accident were other churches and our church.”

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