Central Alberta man in urgent need of community support

A Red Deer man fighting terminal cancer is desperately seeking support from the community for further treatment.

A Red Deer man fighting terminal cancer is desperately seeking support from the community for further treatment.

Jason Kom-Tong, 35, is battling stage four cancer and has been given months to live. He and his family are hoping that he can travel to Arizona for specialized treatment, but it’s costly. They are trying to raise about $175,000.

“My drive is to be a father for my kids, and to able to also dance at my daughter’s wedding,” he writes on a board as he is unable to speak.

Kom-Tong, husband to Bambi and dad to six-year-old Zack and four-year-old Kisenya, was diagnosed with stage four squamous cell carcinoma or tongue cancer. It has now spread into his blood stream.

It was back in 2006 he first noticed an unusual mark on his tongue.

Since then, he has been going to doctors asking them to help him figure out what was wrong.

“It was just a little tiny line – a little white spot at the very back and along the side,” recalls Bambi.

In 2008, it started to change shape and move closer to the front of his tongue. A biopsy was done, which came back negative.

Another biopsy was done in 2009, again with negative results. In 2011, he went for another as the sore wasn’t healing, and in fact was becoming more painful.

In 2011, it became like a persistent cut that pretty much always hurt. A biopsy was done in Vancouver.

Over the next while, his conditioned worsened. More tests were done.

“The first biopsy they did was negative.” But shortly after that, another one was done a bit further back and a bit deeper on his tongue.

“It was cancer.”

That was at the beginning of 2013. It’s been a devastating process for the family to say the least.

Jason has had major surgery in November of last year as well, as doctors removed part of his tongue and replaced the cancerous part with muscle from his arm. He then underwent 33 sessions of radiation and three sessions of chemotherapy.

“They thought they had it all, but unfortunately there were some cells left behind.”

This past May, they discovered cancer had returned to his mouth and had spread to his jawbone.

A second surgery in July was done to remove his tongue (glossectomy), and again re-build it using his own muscles and then attaching his new muscle to the floor of his mouth.

In September, he had sores on his face and eventually learned they were cancerous as well. They had also metastasized into his blood stream.

Doctors have also since told Jason there is nothing more they can do for him.

But he and Bambi aren’t about to give up the fight.

“You just keep looking – he’s such fighter, he has such a fighting spirit, there wasn’t any way that he was going to give up.”

They learned of a treatment facility in Arizona called the Envita Medical Centre where one of the treatments includes a chemotherapy that zeroes in on the precise affected area.

Instead of a generalized treatment, this type of chemotherapy is based on a specific biopsy zeroing in on the area. It’s estimated he would need to be at the facility for about four months to receive the various treatments which also include immuno-therapies, nutritional therapy and detoxification therapy.

Meanwhile, Jason communicates by writing on a board. He cannot eat normally, but receives his nutrition through a stomach tube. His weight has dropped to about 111 lbs.

Meanwhile, they’ve raised about $45,000 to date and Bambi said the treatment centre is willing to work with them in terms of a payment plan.

For more about how to support them, visit http://www.gofundme.com/hdrsdw. Coming up is a fundraiser at Bo’s Bar and Grill in Red Deer on Dec. 6th starting at 7 p.m. Check out the Facebook link at ‘Online Auction to support the Kom-Tong family’.

editor@reddeerexpress.com

 

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